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Dear Dr. Karen:
Two weeks ago, I was blindsided by the man who I thought was the one. In four months, I became intimately involved with a divorced father along with his 12 year- old son. I thought we had a future together and then suddenly, he told me that he didn’t feel like he could give me what I was giving him. I told him I wanted to be in his life and wanted to work it out. I told him that I love him and always will. I have not heard from him anymore.
~ Love Lost
Dear Love Lost:
News Flash! You can’t lose a love you never had. When a man feels as though he is being hunted like a wild animal he will find the first escape route he can. You committed the three deadly relationship sins. First, you had sex with him, second, you told him you loved him, and third, you assumed you had a future together.
Men will always give you signs before the breakup. He clearly told you that he didn’t feel like he could give you what you were giving him and that was marriage and a family.
Ladies don’t be so quick to fall in love. Sometimes, we tend smother a man too much too soon. The man just got divorced and you already had him at the alter again. He felt the pressure and that scared him right out of your life. Next time don’t be so quick to play wife and mother.
***Dr. Karen R. January is an expert in youth development as well as male-female relationships. Her new book, ¨Lessons Mama Never Taught Me,¨ profiles 10 women and the mistakes they made in parenting, love and life. It can be purchased at Amazon.com. Please send your questions to Dr. Karen at askdrjanuary@gmail.com.
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